Preface

I decided to finally type this down as I sit in a hospital . Nothing to worry about , mum had an embolism and is okay. I have advised a lot of people on “how to maintain / do things that women like “ , this advice was typically lined up assuming that they have good intentions as a relationship . This would have sufficed since I donot have a lot of people in my life , however I do feel a lot of people who think like bots .

This blog/space aims to show perspectives between people with dos and donts for Emotionally unintelligent people or peole who aare confused . I wont be vouching that I know all about women but this does serve as a beginner’s guide from my point of view. All the experiences and wisdom come from the couples arond me : the guy who got rejected 4 times , the guy who said “f off” to a woman , the guy who decided to not drop his girl back home , the one who decides to say he neglected her text instead and so many more . Also a couple on train whose entire lifecycle flashed before me ( the love phase to the breakup phase where I saw this woman cry recently near the library).

None of these serve as facts and must not be taken at face value . Facts and emotions are quite at odds most of the time . This guide tries to improve your emotional intelligence through examples rather than asking you to be a “better guy” . The cheesy stuff is mostly somethig that is supposed to make you feel things so that you evolve into a “nice guy” , Now where will this lead you? … Only time shall tell.