Introduction
Understanding love and human connection begins with curiosity, empathy, and self-awareness. In this opening chapter, we explore the core principles that lay the foundation for meaningful relationships.
I dont really have a way to categorize things in this space based off a “tag” . So I have decided to write this however I feel . The major categories I think I can seggregate this into can be *before the realationship, during and after *. Another view point would be from a man/woman perspective. My focus primarily involves binary people , however non binary people could read this if they decide it is of their liking.
I ask you to read this blog with the intent to understand perspectives over a “how to do this 101” (Exactly why I havent called it how to get a woman 101 :) ) .
Some primary glossary needed are as follows (more will be added later on as I see them):
Primary strike : The supposedly shallow first offense that a guy commits which women use to ignite bigger fires. The guy tends to remain clueless and for a reason . Women tend to cry about this , but this is the most recoverrable phase . But there are degrees to how bad the woman wants to imagine it in their heads . You can fortify this and make it more thicker by either being more insensitive or by constant reassurance.
Secondary strike : This si the strike that is lead by the primary , ie a deeper offense . This is the point where women ponder breaking up . BUt just *pondering “ , this genrally tends to leave a deeper scar and women will bring up this strike in every other conversation in the future . Donot enter this zone as a guy because you shall be fighting shadows for the rest of your life . It will take quite some effort to restore it to normal but not impossible.
Third strike : This is the final strike that actually starts the detachment in women , this typically takes weeks , during this phase you have a chance to do something sweet to restore all damage or flush it down the drain . The end resul t of this is alwasys a breakup so tread carefully.
Maintenace Points : This includes things that make women feel loved / noticed . This causes them to feel strangely attached and can help fortify the strikes/ reduce impact.