Women take notice of men regardless of status . They only decide to interract with you if they see something that amuses them or benefits them. Women tend to prefer looks over personality but this graphs even out as they get experienced . The primary ones they look upto are the funny ones , but their curiosity leads them to chase after the ones that are hyperfocused on their work , or are mysterious.
Now what do you classify as an inciting phase ? - this is just the “first talk “ . Often somethig that is never related to relationships . This is genrally asking help or a comment about something . Keep this non flirty unless the women classifies as a non chalant one . this is where things branch out in the relationship , try maintaining a constant touch with random requests until she feels comfortable talking back to you.
If things are going good you’ll find yourself talking about your friend circle. Donot confuse this with women who tend to overshare anyways .
Perspectives :
Men : If she isnt an attractive woman youre likely not falling for her , however mysteriously if you start craving companionship it means theres your “igniting event”. Make a decision to either pursue it or let it die . You’ll probably not be able to classify it as attraction regardless since it does not reveal personality.This is supposedly where the chase begins. Women tend to remeber details about this a lot so try keeping a record because sentences like “ remeber we …” shows intimacy and moments before things actually happen tend to score a “maintenance point”.